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cashwarrior1

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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2520 on: June 03, 2017, 01:32:03 AM »

Part of me tells me it's not a bad thing to get into a relationship, to experiment with people to find out more about yourself and your interests. The other part tells me that you shouldn't get into a relationship unless it's going to be the person you plan on marrying.

(Sorry for changing the topic to myself, I just had some thoughts that might start some interesting discussion)
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2521 on: June 03, 2017, 03:12:03 AM »

Imo you need to be in few relationships before you're actually good at being in one. I found out how shitty of a boyfriend I made the first time I was in one (though I only realized it later on). Even my current relationship took a lot of work on my part to be good at it, going on 5 months together now. Obviously this isnt the same for everyone, but if you're an extremely independent individual like me, you'll most likely find some personal roadblocks regarding how you communicate with your partner.

My advice: If you see someone you fancy, ask them out! Being in a relationship can lead to a lot of personal growth, if you're willing!
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« Reply #2522 on: June 03, 2017, 05:51:36 AM »

lol u should absolutely have relationships that help you establish what you look for in a partner and realize how you act in a relationship, if you literally skip straight to "first relationship = marriage" then you're prooooobably not going to have a very good one. Lemme tell u if i had decided to stay with my first bf forever i'd have married an emotionally manipulative/abusive man with whom I had very few important things in common sooooo :^) :^) :^) :^) :^)
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2523 on: June 03, 2017, 12:08:58 PM »

Okay, thanks for the advice!
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2524 on: June 03, 2017, 01:16:58 PM »

You've got to get it wrong before you can get it right XD
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2525 on: June 03, 2017, 09:18:37 PM »

I know that a high school relationship will likely just be a waste of my time and energy. I'm honestly just not willing to sacrifice that into a relationship like that just "to experiment" or whatever. Also I'm probably just a shit partner anyway.

But I don't think it's very logical for me to assume that I could get into and sustain a great romantic relationship when I go to college or something. I can't even sustain a friend relationship; I sit outside by myself during lunch because I just don't want to interact with people.
Realistically, I'll probably just stay alone even out of high school. I don't have the experience necessary to make a friend, not to mention a girl/boyfriend. Still, I feel that I would rather spend my time being involved in other things besides relationships.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2526 on: June 03, 2017, 09:31:09 PM »

The funny thing about making friends is that you don't need experience. Either you mesh or you don't. Assuming that you're never gonna have friends because you "don't have experience" is baloney. I mean, you're still here with us, right?
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2527 on: June 03, 2017, 09:47:01 PM »

Yeah, we don't have to like you ;)
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2528 on: June 04, 2017, 01:27:07 AM »

it's one thing on the internet, meeting someone in real life and talking to them is different
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2529 on: June 04, 2017, 02:12:05 AM »

Being online is way more difficult; reading is hard, yo.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2530 on: August 14, 2017, 08:02:14 AM »

edit: cut this cuz a stalker flagged it to me! no shame has been incurred and a meaningful moment was created, but just gonna bring this down for safe-keeping
« Last Edit: May 18, 2019, 02:50:53 PM by daj »
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2531 on: August 14, 2017, 08:22:32 AM »

It's one of those rooms for one
what kind of college has these rooms
that aren't super expensive

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I think the best call in this situation is just to be honest. It seems like she's fairly comfortable around you, and you should let her know that you want to be in a relationship with her, but you feel like it's just not the optimal time due to the circumstances you described.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2532 on: August 14, 2017, 09:14:57 AM »

Yeah, I mean, why not just say it? Tell her that thing you told us about what you want. Talk to her about it. Because what else are you gonna do except leave it hanging or somehow get into a commitment you didn't want to be in.

Tell her you like her but you don't think right now is the best time for you. Maybe go on an official date first or something, I dunno. Context. But don't abandon it and leave her not knowing why and you not knowing if.

You can't ruin it by being honest and mature.
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« Reply #2533 on: August 14, 2017, 01:31:56 PM »

what kind of college has these rooms
that aren't
super expensive
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You can't ruin it by being honest and mature.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #2534 on: August 14, 2017, 02:01:18 PM »

Open and honest communication is key, don't just try to figure out if she's into you like a high schooler would. That's just dumb. Make a move or tell her how you feel or ask her how she feels like a grown-up.
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