It's not that I choose to be single just for the sake of it, nor for a lack of caring. I just haven't found someone with whom I'd be willing to take that leap. I realize that sounds cliche, but I don't want to spend the energy building a relationship that I know will not be long term, to the order of years.
Also ETF, sorry to hear that, did you care for him deeply?
@shadow, ok, what's the issue?