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Re: Relationships
« Reply #315 on: June 26, 2012, 05:48:08 AM »

Yeah, having stable income is a good idea when considering having teh babies.
I read somewhere that the average cost of raising a child over the course of years 1-18 costs roughly 285k. It's a very rough estimate, and almost impossible to calculate accurately.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #316 on: June 26, 2012, 06:24:43 AM »

Psh you guys worry too much. Babies just need a rug for sleep, a toilet, and some raisins right?
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #317 on: June 26, 2012, 07:59:24 AM »

Psh you guys worry too much. Babies just need a rug for sleep, a toilet, and some raisins right?

...I'm calling CPS xD

Well anyway I can't think of a worse time for this kind of decision to be made. It's impossible to raise an infant while still in school. Also doubt it's that easy to just find a job and be financially stable that soon after.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #318 on: June 26, 2012, 08:06:54 AM »

Somebody once told me there is no "good time" to have children. If you sit around and wait for the circumstances that will allow you to raise a child, you'll be waiting either forever, or until the option is gone. Just don't choose to have kids while you can't spend time to raise them (school).
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #319 on: June 26, 2012, 08:25:24 AM »

Just don't choose to have kids while you can't spend time to raise them (school).

Yup. I dunno where my classmate would find time to do anything if her mom/cousins didn't help her by babysitting her 1 year old...
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #320 on: June 26, 2012, 02:00:45 PM »

That's awesome Harvest :)
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« Reply #321 on: June 26, 2012, 10:18:49 PM »

...I'm calling CPS xD

Well anyway I can't think of a worse time for this kind of decision to be made. It's impossible to raise an infant while still in school. Also doubt it's that easy to just find a job and be financially stable that soon after.

This isn't happening right now.  We have both agreed that it needs to happen at some point.  After school at least.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #322 on: June 28, 2012, 05:19:07 AM »

^Bf has been telling me that for a while. The fun part is I don't want kids, and he wants at least 3-4. We'll see who wins in the end I guess.
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« Reply #323 on: June 28, 2012, 06:43:08 AM »

^Since he's not the one that's going to have them, it's pretty obvious xD
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« Reply #324 on: June 28, 2012, 06:44:14 AM »

^Since he's not the one that's going to have them, it's pretty obvious xD
There's always adoption. Which imo is the better option for our current circumstances.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #325 on: June 28, 2012, 07:11:09 AM »

You might want to be careful around this subject, this is an issue that most won't concede on either side of the argument. While yes, one of you may yeild later, but often times just knowing your partner doesn't want the same life goals you do is enough to start questioning the future of the relationship.

We're all young here, and while most of us have a pretty good idea of what we want out of life, just don't bank on everything turning out the way you hoped.
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« Reply #326 on: June 28, 2012, 09:37:04 AM »

^Bf has been telling me that for a while. The fun part is I don't want kids, and he wants at least 3-4. We'll see who wins in the end I guess.
What Roz wants:
What her boyfriend wants:

Compromise:
Note that's it's not two children but that it's half of each of 4 children.
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #327 on: June 28, 2012, 03:24:24 PM »

^ You just made my day Jub. x)
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #328 on: August 02, 2012, 01:38:00 PM »

*revives this topic*

Guys, I think I'm in love! <3
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Re: Relationships
« Reply #329 on: August 02, 2012, 07:55:29 PM »

Who's the lucky girl?  :D
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