Okay but I doubt any gay people are just going to walk around wearing signs that go "i'm hella gay".
Well I'm in high school, so I think anyone that is gay/bi either:
a) Doesn't know it yet
b) They can't admit it to themselves yet
c) Has come to terms with it but doesn't want to risk being out.
I'm sure as people grow up and move out a more believable percentage of them well be LGBTQ, but right now, my school is ~99.9% straight.
He found out I had a thing for him last week during some weird circumstances and I think he was kinda weirded out but we haven't talked about it (and I'm not planning on it) and he's been cool so IDK. (Apart from this painfully awkward obviously forced story he told about trying to pick up a girl that was clearly meant to be like "hi I'm straight")
I think it'd be better if both of you get some sort of consolation/closure on it, but I can see how it would be nearly impossible to bring up at this point.
yeaaaah that's called stereotyping
Gay stereotypes are annoyingly true. I'd rather date a girl than a feminine guy and I'll be darned if I can find a boyfriend who doesn't wear pink skinny jeans and calls everything fabulous in an oddly high pitched voice.